In this episode, we delve into the critical topic of difficult marriages and domestic violence within the Jewish community. I once again had the opportunity to speak with Dr. Shana Frydman, the esteemed CEO of Shalom Task Force, who shares her extensive knowledge and experience in supporting individuals in challenging marriages, fostering healthy relationships, and providing guidance for those in abusive situations.
We explore the nuances of domestic violence, the importance of understanding the dynamics of power and control, and how these differ from a difficult marriage—and whether that distinction makes a difference.
Midlife often prompts reflection, especially as our children grow and life dynamics shift. It’s during this time that many women assess the state of their marriage and consider their options if their relationships are difficult or abusive.
Dr. Frydman emphasizes the possibilities for moving forward, focusing on how to navigate these situations rather than only advocating for dissolving the marriage. She discusses the possibilities women can consider and how friends, family, and the community can offer support.
Join us for this vital conversation that aims to educate, empower, and promote safety and well-being within our communities. This is an important episode.
SHOW NOTES
02:49 When there are challenges in midlife marriages
03:17 What is the definition of domestic violence in a marriage
10:43 Considering leaving an abusive relationship at this point
16:42 Just because she stayed in the marriage for 20+ years doesn’t mean everything was OK
18:44 Dealing with hormonal changes
20:11 Role of therapy and support systems
24:56 Client-Centered Approach
27:06 Understanding Domestic Violence dynamics
32:48 Is it possible for the one being hurt to find a different life?
34:38 Midlife reflections and wanting changes
37:26 Resources and support systems
