couples and families, and a mother, mother-in-law and grandmother for many years so she has lots of lived and clinical experience in this area of parenting adult children. Throughout the conversation, we spoke about the changing roles of parenting – our adult children are still our children, but with their own lives and choices and how to navigate that balance. Especially if we think they are making mistakes.
Yeta also spoke about how to have conversation about sensitive topics. We spoke about children-in-law, about the couple coming for yom tov and single adult children living at home.
SHOW NOTES
4:01 Who are our adult children
5:24 I see my adult child doing things that are headed for disaster. How do I bring that up
9:03 sometimes it is worthwhile to get outside objective insight.
10:11 how to repair the relationship
15:56 sometimes it is about the personalities
18:00 if your child’s spouse is hurt
19:32 if you notice something about your child’s spouse
23:09 How and if to mention things you notice in your adult child’s life
24:01 children coming to you for yom tov
29:58 adult single children living at home
38:05 checking in with adult children
43:38 expectations about the parent/adult child relationship