In this episode, we’re diving into a topic that’s often whispered about but rarely openly discussed: the complexities of intimacy in midlife.
This conversation with Faigy Pollock, an expert on marriage and intimacy, delves into the dynamics of relationships during the midlife years. As family dynamics shift—whether it’s the empty nest, more time, less time, or the changes in our bodies, hormones, and libido—Faigy provides valuable insights. We explore the importance of maintaining a physical relationship throughout life and how it’s never too late to cultivate meaningful and fulfilling intimacy.
SHOW NOTES
07:39 Sexual Intimacy vs Intimacy in General
12:49 The Marriage Relationship in Midlife (What Is Menopause?)
16:16 Challenges for Intimacy in Midlife
24:51 Emotional and Physical Aspects of Intimacy
36:37 Shifts That May Happen Around Midlife
41:10 The Jewish Approach to Marriage and Intimacy
43:12 The Dangers of Faking Intimacy and The Power of Real Vulnerability
50:18 Navigating Emotional Vulnerability in Marriage
55:24 When Your Libido Is Low
1:10:28 The Difference Between Arousal and Desire
1:15:03 Making the Marriage a Priority
