Play isn’t one-size-fits-all.
Just like we have different learning styles or love languages, we each have our own way of playing—ways that light us up, help us recharge, and invite us into flow.Dr. Stuart Brown, a psychiatrist and play researcher, identified eight distinct play personalities—eight natural styles of engaging with the world in joyful, energizing ways. Understanding your personal play style (or blend of styles) can help you reconnect with play in a way that feels natural—not forced or childish, but truly fulfilling.
This is especially helpful in adulthood, when “play” often gets buried under to-do lists and responsibilities. But the truth is: the more we align with our play personality, the more alive, creative, and connected we feel.
Below are the 8 play personalities. Which one feels most like you? And how might you plex it into your life?
Rate each Play Type: How much does this describe you?
(1 = Not like me at all, 3 = Somewhat like me, 5 = Totally me)
1. Joker
You love making people laugh and joking around. You feel most energized when you’re being silly, telling funny stories, or lightening the mood with humor.
2. Kinesthete
You love moving your body—running, dancing, or playing sports. You feel most energized when you’re physically active or exploring new ways to use your body.
3. Explorer
You love discovering new ideas, places, or experiences. You feel most energized when you’re learning, trying new things, or seeking adventure.
4. Competitor
You love testing your skills and challenging yourself. You feel most energized when you’re competing in games, sports, or any contest.
5. Director
You love leading, organizing, and making plans happen. You feel most energized when you’re in charge of events, projects, or group activities.
6. Collector
You love gathering and organizing things you care about—whether objects, ideas, or memories. You feel most energized when you’re curating your collections or organizing your world.
7. Artist/Creator
You love expressing yourself through art, music, or crafts. You feel most energized when you’re making something new or bringing your ideas to life.
8. Storyteller
You love telling stories, acting, or imagining different worlds. You feel most energized when you’re sharing narratives, roleplaying, or exploring fantasies.
Which of these get your highest scores?
Focus on bringing more of that into your life. It gets even more interesting when planning for Plexing with your spouse, family, or friends. Try blending your styles to create shared Plex experiences that work for all of you.
👉 Check out this page for ideas and inspiration for each category.
